1. erinkyan:

    petrak:

    ofhounds:

    this is a post where i ask for help

    • my name is elie i’m 21 years old white queer trans mentally ill and autistic
    • my parents are getting a divorce
    • they both want me to move in with them
    • i don’t want to move in with either of them. i love them both dearly and they’ve done a lot for me but:
    • my mother is not very accepting of my sexuality and not at all accepting of my gender, she condescends me and my interests constantly, and she’s very controlling and generally mean to me and everyone else
    • my father is absolutely horrible to me whenever my mental illness makes itself known, he calls me stupid and other names and he never does anything around the house bc he thinks it’s not his place and he has serious anger issues 
    • i’m tired of living in an environment like that and it’s just getting worse as they’re getting more stressed and angry over the split
    • i’m also trying to go back to school. they’re both planning to live in places where i would not be able to do this there. all i would be able to do is live with them and work all the time, the same thing i am doing now. i have been trying to save to go back to school, or to be more specific, to cover living expenses so i can go back to school, but the more i think about it the more i realize that the best choice for me would be to move in that direction now and then gradually ease into going back to school (like maybe take a class or two at a time)
    • i have some money saved but it’s nowhere near what i need to move out and not be totally fucked if i can’t get a good job right away, and i’m not going to be so optimistic as to just assume that’s going to happen for me
    • i’m trying to move out as soon as possible. i’m working almost every day (last week i worked 48 hours, the week before i worked 51) at a job that is incredibly draining for me, both physically, because i am there for 8-13 hours busting ass on the days that i work, and emotionally, because i don’t have time for myself or to spend time with friends or see anyone other than the people i work with/for, and because i’m a server and i honestly have a lot of difficulty with it bc i am mentally ill. there is a lot of short term memory stress and general workplace stress is very high because i work at a place where the guests own the restaurant and have been losing money there lately and a lot of them take it out on the employees, being rude or downright hateful  and abusive.
    • any help would be appreciated
    • donations to my paypal (which is ermoorman@hotmail.com) (there is also a button on my page) could expedite this process and help me afford things like cups and silverware and towels and pans and cleaning supplies and shit which i don’t currently have my own sets of and cannot take with me from my current living arrangement
    • also if you have any advice/suggestions for moving out or living on your own i’d love to hear them because i know nothing about how to do this and i’m honestly fucking petrified
    • also also if you live in jacksonville fl i’d like to make friends with people… i know literally nobody there and it’s really scary. i’d especially love to meet other queer/trans ppl bc being able to talk to ppl that understand and support me is rly important to me
    • basically any help at all would be incredible even if all u can do is signal boost this
    • thank you

    Signal boost. Elie is awesome and we’ve had a mutual follow going for fuckin’ years probably exclusively due to space and rad music.

    unfortunately I imagine any advice I could offer would be region locked, but I’ve duked $5 your way and hopefully my followers may have more useful to an american advice on moving out or whatnot :D 

    Have you tried using http://www.transhousingnetwork.com/ yet?

  2. youthxcrew69:

    THIS IS A CAT PLAYING IN FALL LEAVES THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT

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  3. For more than 200 years we Owens women have been blamed by everything that’s ever gone wrong in this town.

    (Source: glorianas)

  4. torisoulphoenix:

    marsofbrooklyn:

    meridiandreams:

    It was Sooooooo Natural! Like they do it every morning! Omg!

    *feels on defcon*

    YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    (Source: makos-lightningrod)

  5. story-dj:

    #you should reblog this every time it’s on your dash

    (Source: felixxturner)

  6. fripperiesandfobs:

    Dress, early 1900’s

    From 19th Century

  7. ephemeral-elegance:

    Cut Lace Dress, ca. 1902

    Terrill, Omaha, Nebraska

    via The Met

  8. erinkyan:

    hmasfatty:

    flatbear:

    lalivingmuerte:

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    i think this could be useful for the people who is not totally sure about spend their money in this movie, it has their good and bad points, but generally is a great movie, so please, let’s show them that “An Hispanic story” can be as good as any other one, or even better!. 

    Go and see this movie. Go go go go go. It was beautiful and incredible and fun and I cried through the whole ending. It’s one of those rare movies that has such a good, natural message that doesn’t feel forced, and by the end I was phsyically stopping myself from getting up and yelling YES MOVIE I WILL DO AS YOU SAY I WILL WRITE MY ~OWN STORY.

    Go see it. All I see on tumblr every day is diversity this, diversity that. Put your money where your mouth is.

    This isn’t out in Australia until April but I’m really looking forward to it!

    I’M SO PUMPED FOR THIS MOVIE we should organize a group outing :D

  9. monosexuals:

    oh my goddddddd marriage equality and other lgbt rights aren’t mutually exclusive. You can support BOTH imagine that.

    And stop devaluing what marriage rights actually grant us, ESPECIALLY in the case of the older members of our community. Marriage equality isn’t about getting a pretty ceremony, it is about the rights that come along with a legal marriage. Rights that can be life saving.

  10. 130186:

Stéphane Rolland S/S 2010

    130186:

    Stéphane Rolland S/S 2010

  11. professorsparklepants:

    gethinblake:

    so many of my friends are queer that i genuinely forget that the majority of the population isn’t on a regular basis

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  12. expels:

    my talents include stress eating and falling in love with people that will never love me back

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  13. the-gold-finch:

    Puscifer // The Humbling River

    Angel, angel, what have I done?
    I’ve faced the quakes, the wind, the fire.
    I’ve conquered country, crown, and throne.
    Why can’t I cross this river?

  14. thewitchofapples:

    Floating Acorn Cap Candle

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